5 Barriers to Mediumship Development (And How to Overcome Them)
Treasured friends,
Mediumship is a calling—one that requires trust, practice, and personal growth. Yet, so many aspiring mediums feel blocked before they even begin. You may sense spirit, feel drawn to the work, or have had profound experiences, but something is holding you back.
If that sounds familiar, you’re not alone. Many students experience these same barriers before they finally step into their potential. The good news? These blocks aren’t permanent. With the right tools, mindset, and environment, you can break through them and develop a deeper, more confident connection with the spirit world.
In my experience, teaching mediumship over the last 20 years, I have identified 5 common barriers to mediumship unfoldment. Let’s explore these five barriers to mediumship development—and what you can do to move past them.
1. Fear of the Unknown
One of the biggest obstacles for new and developing mediums is fear. It often shows up as:
Fear of what (or who) you might connect with
Fear of "doing it wrong"
Fear of judgment from others
Overcome It By:
Educating Yourself: Knowledge is the antidote to fear. The more you understand spirit communication, the less intimidating it becomes.
Start in a Supportive Space: Mediumship is best developed in a structured, safe environment where you can explore your abilities with guidance. If you’re in Melbourne, joining an immersive event like The Medium’s Blueprint can help you step into your power in a grounded, supported way.
Work with a Mentor: Having an experienced medium by your side gives you the reassurance and confidence to move forward without fear. They will identify your potential and help guide you as you build up trust in self and in spirit.
2. Doubt in Your Abilities
Many people hesitate to develop their mediumship because they question whether they are “gifted” enough. Thoughts like:
Am I just imagining this or is it Spirit?
Why does it work for others but not for me?
What if I can’t do it consistently?
Overcome It By:
Trust That Mediumship is a Skill, Not Just a Gift: Like learning an instrument, the more you practice, the stronger your ability becomes.
Keep a Development Journal: Record signs, synchronicities, and spirit messages. Over time, you'll see proof that your intuition is real. My Mediumship Journal has been specifically developed for this.
Give Yourself the Right Environment to Grow: Stepping into a structured experience, like a weekend of deep learning and activation, can be the turning point in shifting self-doubt into confidence.
3. Emotional Blocks & Unresolved Energy
Past grief, trauma, or deep-seated fears can create resistance in mediumship. If you’ve ever felt emotionally overwhelmed or struggled to receive clear messages, this may be why.
Overcome It By:
Prioritise Self-Healing: Mediumship is an extension of you. Doing the inner work—whether through meditation, energy healing, or personal reflection—can help clear your energy to receive spirit more clearly.
Ground Yourself: Practices like nature walks, breathwork, and spiritual rituals help keep your energy clear and balanced.
Give Yourself the Space to Transform: Sometimes, a shift in energy is needed to break through emotional blocks. Events like The Medium's Blueprint in Melbourneare designed to help you shed old limitations and align with your highest self.
4. Feeling Alone or Misunderstood
Not everyone in your life will understand your calling. You may feel hesitant to share your experiences, fearing judgment or skepticism.
Overcome It By:
Surround Yourself with Like-Minded Souls: Community is everything when developing mediumship. Whether it’s an online group or in-person gatherings, connecting with those on a similar path makes all the difference.
Create a Support System: Finding teachers and peers who truly “get it” helps you feel validated and confident in your journey.
Step Into a Space Where You Belong: At The Medium’s Blueprint in Melbourne, you’ll be surrounded by others who share your passion for spirit work. These immersive experiences can provide the encouragement and validation you need to keep going.
5. Over-thinking or Trying too Hard
Many developing mediums get stuck in their heads—over analyzing, second-guessing, or trying too hard to “get it right.” This blocks the natural flow of spirit communication.
Overcome It By:
Relax & Let Go: Mediumship works best when you stop forcing and start allowing.
Practice Sitting in the Power: Deepening your spiritual awareness and presence allows clearer messages to come through.
Immerse Yourself in the Experience: Sometimes, stepping away from daily distractions and dedicating time to your growth makes all the difference. A structured retreat or live event helps you get out of your head and into the natural flow of spirit.
Your Mediumship Journey Starts Here
If you’ve felt stuck or uncertain about your mediumship, know that there is a way forward. You don’t have to navigate this alone.
Whether you're just starting or looking to deepen your abilities, stepping into a dedicated space for transformation can be the key to unlocking your potential.
If you’re ready to break through your barriers and develop your mediumship in a way that feels clear, confident, and aligned—The Medium’s Blueprint in Melbourne might be exactly what you need. ✨ Your journey is waiting. Are you ready to take the next step?
Affirmation for March:
Repeat this daily:
"I now intentionally walk my purpose knowing I'm supported by Spirit"
Community News
Meraki Spiritualist Society, a place for my developing mediums to hone their skills and be supported in a like minded community.
Our next Meraki is on Sunday March 23rd and it will be a special event as i will be joined by my dear friend UK medium Julie Ebrey to give mediumship readings from the platform.
Mark it in your diary as it will be one that you don't want to miss!
Brightest blessings,